TED speech event creator Chris Anderson suggests you can persuade people of your speech point if you show how the point opposite your speech point is impossibly silly. "You may think that recovering from this tragedy is impossible and you can't move forward in your life any more. This is very unlikely. After all, no one has ever managed to move backwards in their life."
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