December 31, 2009

3 days later

Fellow speaker,

Make a meaningful impact in people's lives 3 days or longer after you complete your speech.

Long-term,

Tim

December 30, 2009

Face focus

Fellow speaker,

In order to get people to focus on your face, wear dark clothes.  Dark clothes bring the focus to the face.

Facing off,

Tim

Different point of view

Fellow speaker,

The speaking coach has a different perspective and bring different things to your speech that you simply aren't aware of.   Using a speaking coach opens you up to a new way of seeing things.

Differently,

Tim

December 28, 2009

Be nice!

Fellow speaker,

No matter what type of answer the audience member gives, be nice in how you respond to the questioner and give them credit for having tried to answer the question.

Nicely,

Tim

Time's up!

Fellow speaker,

Make sure you time out each part of the speech.  Otherwise, you might get almost all the way through your speech and not have enough time to make your main point.

In time,

Tim

December 26, 2009

Talk it out

Fellow speaker,

If you are presenting professionally, make sure you have time afterwards to talk with the audience and get to meet people.  This will help in making the connections you need to get hired for your next speech.

Building connections,

Tim

December 25, 2009

Followup questions

Fellow speaker,

Here are questions to better understand your audience:
  • How far have they come?
  • Do they know each other or are they assembling for the first time?
  • What will they hear before and after the presentation?
  • What did they hear last year or at a similar meeting?
  • How would they like to feel and what would they like to "get" as a result of your presentation--when they leave the room, how will they be changed? 
With more questions,


Tim

December 24, 2009

Becoming all-knowing

Fellow speaker,

If you want to impress your audience you have to understand them really well.  Here are some questions to ask and find out about your audience:
  • Who are they?
  • What is their age range?
  • What is their educational background?
  • How long have they been with the organization?
  • What is this particular meeting designed to do? 
Finding out,


Tim

December 23, 2009

Cut 'em down

Fellow speaker,

Make your quotes brief and to the point.  If they are longer than two lines, cut out the parts that don't exactly make your point.

Cutting with quotes,

Tim

December 22, 2009

Bring out the best

Fellow speaker,

Using quotes in your presentation gives you a chance to bring out time-tested words that are known to have a strong, powerful effect.  This gives you an instant connection with the audience.

Connectedly,

Tim

December 21, 2009

Ever so very contemporary

Fellow speaker,

When using quotes, use modern quotes from people who are still alive.  The audience is more likely to personally relate to quotes of a living person more quotes from someone dead.

Quoting,

Tim

December 20, 2009

Twist and shout!

Fellow speaker,

Rewrite an old, familiar saying and "twist" it (e.g.,   "Early to bed and early to rise makes you miss out on all the night fun.")

Rewriting the classics,

Tim

December 19, 2009

Get in touch with your senses

Fellow speaker,

Use sensory words to trigger memories.  Words such as "See", "Hear", "Taste", etc. bring up vivid word-pictures in your audience's mind.

Picturing,

Tim

December 18, 2009

Sound off!

Fellow speaker,

Including sound in your stories builds up the tension and excitement.  For example, "Crack! went the bat as it smacked into the baseball, sending the ball soaring up and out of the stadium for a home run!".

Sounding,

Tim

December 17, 2009

A question before presenting

Fellow speaker,

Here are four questions World Champion Darren LaCroix asks himself every time before he goes on stage:
  1. What is my intent? 
  2. Am I present?
  3. Will I have fun? 
  4. How would I give this presentation if I knew it was my last one ever?
Questioning,

Tim

December 16, 2009

Be heroic

Fellow speaker,

Look over your life and news and find heroic examples that you can use in your speeches.

Heroed,

Tim

Three ways of looking at your hearing

Fellow speaker,

Your audience "hears" what you say and do in different ways:
  • Mindfully - they think about and work to understand your points
  • Emotionally - they have feelings and reactions to your points
  • Visually - they see what you do onstage and they relate that to the point you are trying to make
Three-wayed,

Tim

Make it interesting

Fellow speaker,

In order to make a point "stick" in a person's mind, it needs to be interesting.  So the more important your point, the more you have to work to make it interesting and exciting to your audience.

Interestingly,

Tim

December 13, 2009

Who cares?

Fellow speaker,

If you are looking over your speech and you can't come up with a reason for a certain wording or story, take it out of your speech.

Removing,

Tim

Changeup

Fellow speaker,

When doing your speeches, remember to use different pacings, wordings, stories, examples, and to change easily between these things.  It is the changes in the story that grab the audience's attention and "wakes up" those people who thought they knew what was going to happen next.

Changeably,

Tim

December 11, 2009

The Three "S"s

Fellow speaker,

Professional speaker Patricia Fripp recommends that people giving business examples use the Three "S"s:
  • Situation - What was the problem the business faced?
  • Solution - What did you do that helped the business solve that problem?
  • Success - What has the business' situation improved because of your solution?
Successfully,

Tim

December 10, 2009

The sound of silence

Fellow speaker,

Listen to the room while speaking.  Are there a lot of side conversations, discussions, etc. while you are speaking?  It's a sign that you aren't engaging your audience.  Is the audience focused on you, with people nodding and smiling?  That's a sign you are very much engaging your audience.  Is the room very quiet?  That's a sign that the audience is very focused on what you have to say.

Listening in,

Tim

Talk to me

Fellow speaker,

Your speech is a conversation with the audience.  There is always a "give and take" where the focus is sometimes on the speaker, and sometimes on the audience.

Back and forth,

Tim

December 8, 2009

Learning to love the bomb

Fellow speaker,

When a joke or important point doesn't connect and "bombs" with the audience, use that experience as a learning experience.  After the speech figure out why the joke or point didn't connect.

Learning,

Tim

Wait for it!

Fellow speaker,

If your "laugh lines" don't get an instant giggle...wait.  It may take a little time for your humor to "sink in" to your audience.

Waiting it out,

Tim

December 6, 2009

Stand still

Fellow speaker,

To get your audience to focus in on your message stand still.   Move around when setting up the point, but when you come to the point itself, stop and stand still until you have made the point.

Still,

Tim

December 5, 2009

Funny details

Fellow speaker,

When using humor and comedy, add in some details to bring the humor "to life" for your audience.

Humorously detailed,

Tim

Mark up

Fellow speaker,

Write out your speech word for word.  Highlight (in different colors) the introduction, conclusion, stories, humor, transitions, etc.  This will help you see how balanced your presentation is...and what you need to add more of in your speeches.

Highlighting,

Tim

December 3, 2009

Making a point

Fellow speaker,

When making a series of points to your audience, look from the left to the middle to the right for each point, balancing out your looks with the audience as a whole.

In balance,

Tim

December 2, 2009

Choose your position

Fellow speaker,

When watching/listening to yourself speaking, decide what your position" on your speech is:  what are you going to focus on when listening/watching the speech?  For example is it the word pacing and delivery?  Or the stage usage and tie-in with the stage to the speech?  Whatever it is, focus in on that one thing and ignore everything else when listening/watching the speech.  After you are fully aware of that thing, watch/listen to the speech again looking for something different.

Positioned,

Tim

December 1, 2009

Use the stage

Fellow speaker,

Use the stage to indicate what's next.  For example, when you tell a story, move across the stage from the audience's left to the audience's right as you move from the past into the present.  Or have a place on the stage where you always make a major point.  After you do this repeatedly, whenever you come to that place on the stage, the audience will know what to expect.

Moving around,

Tim

In-between times

Fellow speaker,

There is a time in your speech where you have finished making one point and haven't yet begun to make the next point.  This is your "in-between" time that allows you an opportunity to connect with the audience by using:
  • Activity
  • Rhetorical question
  • Very quick story
  • Strong transitional statement
 Moving on,

Tim

Repeat after me

Fellow speaker,

To get your idea across to your audience, repeat your idea.  Say your most important points repeatedly in your speech so the audience remembers them after your speech is over.

Remembering,

Tim

The last thing you hear

Fellow speaker,

Put important words at the end of your sentences.  So, instead of saying "NOW I want you to hear this", say "I want you to hear this NOW."

Ending,

Tim